Today's post comes in the form of a short poem-the first time I've written a poem in a longggg time that couldn't more accurately encapsulate my feelings:
We were beginning to wade out fully into the water
The sediment had settled
The waves were calm so that the cold touch of the water lapping at my skin had subsided
A colorful lit swim bag trail guiding our path
Illuminating each possibility and constraint
The water reflecting the bright moonlight.
But just as I began to take a foot off the ground to begin swimming out into the abyss
The sediment was stirred again
Sand debris everywhere,
the calm surface now agitated with waves returning,
the cold water piercing my tender skin once again
Ejecting me back towards shore,
Realizing for the final time I would never be able to get used to the calm water.
And yet through this, I realized a reminder of why I have the tattoo I do. That I'm not giving away my power anymore.
Nature always has something to teach us. Trees have a cycle that I have resisted..they bud, they grow, and then they let go, something I have resisted adamantly. I have always admired the beauty that is fall taking trips just to see the leaves. But somehow this year is the first time I have thought the mimicry of the trees annual natural shedding applied to me. I persistently and consistently tried to hold on, even to the leaves that need to fall, It's probably no coincidence I don't do well rappelling-I don't let go. I tweak, I problem solve, I overanalyze, I hold on for literally dear life, even though I have a harness on and safe ground below. It's only when I've exhausted every option and realize there is literally no other way down, will I, with an expert rappeller at my side, pry my hands from the rocks, and climb back down. This is because most of life, I usually become successful at building the bridge, needed to continue, even if it's in a different form (or in this case finding some type of alternative path down).
Yet if we look at deciduous trees, they are the most beautiful when they are shedding their leaves, the things that no longer serve them now on the ground. It is this season when they turn to their deepest hues of color. Not when they're budding, not when they're fully in bloom, when they're letting go. And they do it so easefully, not worried about what will happen. They know it's the only way, that new buds will bloom that will help them grow. So this time, instead of picking up the leaves that have left, grasping desperately to hold onto them, I am allowing myself to lean back into the harness and walk down the wall. To let the inconsistent, confusing-as-hell, not-worthy-of-my-time leaves shed and bask in the satisfying crunch of the leaves beneath my feet, looking up at the glowing colors on the tree, the tree that is me.